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My husband and I have decided on the name Andi for a little girl. We are having problems finding a middle name. I don't really care for the most commonly used names. Thank you for your help.
Jessica
CO
Baby Name Genie:
I compliment your choice of the name Andi--a superb name for a baby girl. You will find that the middle name Marlene completes your selection.
My husband and I have decided on the name Isaac for our second son but we are having a hard time agreeing on a middle name. We would like something not quite as biblical as Isaac. Any suggestions?
Raini
LA
Baby Name Genie:
Neither of you should have to sacrifice to agree on Trevor as the baby's middle name.
I love the names Elizabeth and Isabel. What's your opinion on combining them? Elizabelle? Also, I was considering the middle name Rae. Thanks.
Rachel
WV
Baby Name Genie:
Rae is a fine middle name. Elizabelle needs to go though. Stick simply to Elizabeth. Elizabeth Rae makes a splendid name for your baby girl.
Me and my husband both like the name Gabrielle, but we have no idea on middle names that would match? Any ideas?
Monica
MA
Baby Name Genie:
Celeste or Simone compliment the name Gabrielle nicely.
Hi. I am expecting my son in August and I have a first and last name but no middle name... Dante ??? Owens. I want something that sounds good looks good and isn't really a first name. Any ideas? Me and my fiance are going crazy trying to figure out a middle name.
Victoria
MA
Baby Name Genie:
Go with a location name or a last name as the middle name. Here are three middle names to stop your baby name insanity: Cline, Carlton, Montanna.
I want to name my baby Emma, but my husband wants to name her Emily. Do you have any good names that start with Em?
Sarah
TN
Baby Name Genie:
Aside from popularity, I see nothing wrong with the two baby names you have in hand. Since neither of you will back down though, I suggest a truce. Agree to name your baby Amelia; then, go out for hot fudge sundaes to celebrate resolution to your stalemate. Could you order one for me and bring it by the lamp while you are at it?
The boy name you suggested, Julian Gunner, totally blew me away! My grandfather's name was Julian and my husband's grandfather was Gunnar! It's like it was fate! I never thought of using either of these names for our baby nor did I think of using them in combination. Thanks Genie!
Ginny
Canada
Baby Name Genie:
Your recognition of my superior baby naming skills is appreciated.
I am pregnant and would like help. I would like to use the middle name Dale if it is a boy and Violet if it is a girl... but these names are hard to match with a first name. Help.
Mandy
Iowa
Baby Name Genie:
If the baby is a boy, name him Nicholas. If the baby is a girl, name her Allison.
Thank you so much, the first name you suggested is the perfect name, and our baby boy matches the name too, his name is Chris Marshall West. Thanks again and I hope you continue to do a good job as a Genie (I hope you get new furniture for your lamp too. It must be tight in there!)
Lacey
Kansas
Baby Name Genie:
Congratulations! Glad to be of assistance. Finding new furniture hasn't been as big of a problem as finding a store that delivers to genie lamps.
well mr. [word removed] geni ur stupid who the [word removed] would name there baby Orion
ur mother
Location Withheld
Baby Name Genie:
I sincerely hope you are not considering a career as an English teacher.
I have to name my baby boy due in March. I hate every boy's name in the whole world. Help me!
Melanie
Newcastle
Baby Name Genie:
All boy baby names in whole world, eh? Go with the name Orion. It's officially heavenly.
I like the name Kaitlyn Grace but I want to hear from someone else if its a nice name?
Samantha
SC
Baby Name Genie:
Trust your instinct.
We are having twins (boy and girl) and my wife likes the names Olivia and Owen, but I don't like the double "O" names because it's too close to the rhyming names. What do you think?
Paul
Atlanta
Baby Name Genie:
You are stressing out too much. It is not uncommon to give twins baby names with a connection. The names sound good together.
I love the names Nora and Noah do you think it would be confusing or silly for a brother and sister to have these names???
Jess
AU
Baby Name Genie:
One question: Did you like it when your mom mixed up your name with your siblings (or pet)? I am sorry, but its time to start thinking of a different baby name combination even though they are both great names. If you MUST use them though, consider making one a middle name (Patrick Noah).
My husband likes the name Leonardo for our son-to-be. He even keeps calling the baby "Leo". But I can't stand the name. I keep thinking of Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, and my sisters all think of Leonardo DiCaprio. Any suggestions for a suitable alternative?
Mina
TX
Baby Name Genie:
Leander will get your mind off of pizza eating turtles; plus, it eliminates the nickname Leo. He could go by Lee if your husband likes the "lee" sound.
My husband wants to name our son David. I don't really like this name, but I won't mind having David as a middle name. Any ideas on a good first name to match with David Rodriguez?
Mary
FL
Baby Name Genie:
Nathaniel David will make an excellent name as both a baby and an adult.
My husband wants to name our son David. I don't really like this name, but I won't mind having David as a middle name. Any ideas on a good first name to match with David Rodriguez? Please advice.
Mary
FL
Baby Name Genie:
Nathaniel David will make an excellent name for a baby and adult.
My husband and I really like the ring of Cole Miller as a boy's name but can't come up with a good middle name. I don't really want anything off the wall, but something with a nice flow. Any ideas?
Mary Ann
PA
Baby Name Genie:
Cole Miller is an excellent choice for a name. You will find the middle name Zachary compliments it nicely.
I have what I think is the perfect first name for my baby girl, but I am stumped at the thought of a middle name. I wanted to use Faith, but the name is very similar to my sister-in-law's baby born just two days ago. My baby's name will be Kyndra ___ Robbins and her baby's name is Keira Faith--a little too close for me. I want a name that means something "good." Maybe a Christian name...? Can you help? Thanks.
Erica
KY
Baby Name Genie:
Either Kyndra Felicity Robbins or Kyndra Verity Robbins are wonderful alternatives. Whether this constitutes "help" or not depends on if you accept my advice.
Hey Genie, my husband and I really want to name our son Wes, but we're worried it's too close to 'wuss'? Is it? Any alternate name suggestions?
Cami
OH
Baby Name Genie:
Wes is not too close to "wuss" at all. There are plenty of people in this world with the name Wes. It is a perfect name! Especially for your baby. If you must have a different name though, you will find Spencer to be an excellent alternative for your baby boy.
We've decided to name our son Grady but haven't been able to come up with a middle name that sounds right. Any suggestions?
Kellie
VA
Baby Name Genie:
I'll give you three middle names for your baby boy: Nathaniel, Kelton, and Jerome. All of them have a nice ring when paired with Grady. Congratulations on the coming baby!
If I name my baby girl Kirsten, I am concerned people will mispronounce it continually. I like "Keersten" not "Kersten" as the pronunciation. What do you think?
Becky
MI
Baby Name Genie:
I prefer the pronunciation "Keersten." Friends and family will take their cue on how to pronounce her name from you. As for strangers, its not that big of a deal if they say her name slightly incorrectly. The upside to the name is that it could help her identify telemarketers more quickly (if they are still around in the year 2030).
I think you should respond to more letters. I'm sure you get tons of questions, but pregnant ladies are often moody and unreasonable and can be down right frantic in their search of the perfect name. We need all the help we can get...and you're so great at your job...help out more! Now, what is a good middle name for a baby girl named Riley? My husband likes Bay (or Bae) but I'm pretty sure that's an animal noise. Thank you. (Please don't make me "eat a big piece of chocolate cake")
Jami
KS
Baby Name Genie:
Do you even like chocolate cake? As long as your last name is not Townsend, Amanda will make a superb middle name for your baby girl. If your husband is stuck on the "ay" sound though, please use Rae instead of Bay, you'll be glad you did (By the way, on the animal sound thing on "Bay" is pretty obscure--unless you are confusing it with "bray").
My husband and I are having a baby boy in Sept. and we are using the name Ethan for his first name and I wanted to use Lyle for his middle name after my grandpa. Our last name starts with a "K" so his initials will be ELK. Is this too weird?
Lori
MN
Baby Name Genie:
Too weird would be PIG, GUT, or GAS. With your baby being a boy, when he gets old enough to care, he is more likely to think ELK is a cool set of initials.
I'm adopting a baby that I've been fostering. She is two months old and has the same name as my dog, "Chloe" (a name I love). Every time I say her name the dog comes running. I'm afraid at some point the baby might get hurt. The dog won't understand a name change and I'm not getting rid of her, so I'll be changing the baby's name. Her middle name will be "de Hart". Any suggestions?
Michelle
Florida
Baby Name Genie:
I have little sympathy for you since you broke the #1 rule in pet naming: "Never name your pet a name you want to name a future child." Nonetheless, I think you will find the name Nicole to be a suitable alternative.
I have searched my baby name book of 750,000 names and cannot seem to find a middle name for Chanel. I just want a nice middle name that sounds like it's meant to go with Chanel. Thanks.
Renee
Sydney, Australia
Baby Name Genie:
You must have skipped over the name Monroe -- Chanel Monroe. Sleep on it.
We are about to have a baby boy and decided on the name Sean but we have no idea about the middle name. We were thinking about Michael but would want something more original. Any ideas?
Ashley
IL
Baby Name Genie:
I assume when you say "original" you are not referring to supposedly "creative" spelling variations, gender neutralizations, or name mashups. Wesley goes nicely as a middle name... and its not overused--yet.
Is the name Haven Skylar Barclay a beautiful name?
Rhianna
USA
Baby Name Genie:
Somehow, it seems, there is always someone somewhere who thinks something is beautiful. In this instance, I am not that someone.
My husband and I chose the name Gabriel for our little boy, but that is the end of agreement. He wishes for our sons full name to be: Gabriel Knight Booth. He feels it is a strong name. I hear the name Knight and I remember Jordan Knight from New Kids on the Block.... needless to say, I can't handle that. Can you please help me find a middle name that my husband and I agree on?
Jessica
California
Baby Name Genie:
Here is a name your husband will agree has the right stuff: Gabriel Klayton Booth.
My baby boy is supposed to be born in seven days and the name is still undecided! I am so stressed! We like the name Matthew, but I also like the name Trey. I wanted the middle name to be James though. Could I use the name Matthew Trey James Lewis. Or is that too much? I don't want him to have a hard time in life because of the two middle names.
Kendra
Missouri
Baby Name Genie:
Could you? Yes. Should you? No. But only because Trey James does not flow well. People don't have a hard time in life because of two middle names, its much more complicated than that. But even if it did make life hard, you can rest in the thought that adversity breeds character (Don't even think that gives you permission to name him Matthew Sue!).
Can you please help me find a middle name for my first child/son Ian? My baby is due in May. I relied on my husband to find a perfect middle name. No luck so far. We both have a very active, creative, and unique lifestyle. If you would incorporate that in the name. It will sure help the headache that me and my husband have.
Shari
Alabama
Baby Name Genie:
Try Tylenol for the headache and Koda for the middle name.
WHY DON'T YOU EVER USE THE NAME RONNA??? It's the tightest name evah. And I think that you don't have what it takes to be a Baby Name Genie. Why don't you just go and hide in your "lamp", cuz that's one thing you're good at! Love ya!
Ummmm...no
Location Withheld
Baby Name Genie:
Ronna is a fine name. You have my permission to use it. On the lamp issue... have you ever tried living in one? If you could get some decent furniture it wouldn't be so bad; but, doll house chairs really aren't that comfortable.
Our baby boy is going to be born in 6 days. I have come up with many names, but my husband does not like ANY of them!! He has come up with one, but I'm not crazy about it. Please help! We want the middle name to be Michael. Any suggestions?
Brandy
Idaho
Baby Name Genie:
Yes. One. Avery.
My boyfriend and I are having a baby and we found out it is a boy. I asked him about a name and he is set on naming our baby Jesus. He said I could pick the middle name. I really don't like the name Jesus and neither does my family nor his because they are all religious. So, this is a big issue and I don't know what to do. What do you think of that name?
Heather
MO
Baby Name Genie:
In the U.S. you and your baby boy will certainly face many interesting looks if you name him Jesus (unless you pronounce it: Jesús). But in Latin America it would be no big deal. Jesús is a rather common name there. Assuming you have already sought to understand why your boyfriend is so attached to the name and that you have also expressed your concerns about the name, here are two ideas to get out of the pickle you are in: 1. Pick the middle name Peyton and call him J.P. (or just call him by his middle name) 2. See if you can get some traction with the name Joshua--it is closely related to the name Jesus.
I need a middle name for Chayton. He is going to be my new little brother and I get to name him but I can't find a middle name to match. Please find me a name that means something strong and has a Native American twist to it. Thanks.
Tally
CA
Baby Name Genie:
Since you have the honor of doing the naming I won't give you anything conclusive. Here is an idea though: Nahuel. It means "jaguar"-- a solid, strong image. Beware though. It may inspire him to practice sneaking up on you and startling the living daylights out of you for fun on a regular basis. Then again, little brothers like to do things like that regardless of name!
(Message 2 of 2) Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! She loved the name and it is our daughter's name. She is 7 lbs. 8oz. and 21 inches tall. She will forever know the Genie saved her name. Thanks again.
Sammy
NY
Baby Name Genie:
Congratulations! I am sure she is as beautiful as her name. Glad to be of assistance. Enjoy your new bundle!
I need a middle name for Tori. Something really catchy, but not too "cutsie". My husband really likes the name, but I don't "LOVE" it. I am looking for a middle name that will send it into that "LOVE" category.
Dana
TX
Baby Name Genie:
I recommend these three catchy, but not cutsie, baby girl names: Tori Beth, Tori Lynn, or Tori Raquel. You decide.
(Message 1 of 2) My daughter will be born in less then four days! My wife is really set on the name Velveta--seriously. She said that if I could come up with a very girly cute name she would drop Velveta Rose Alen. Any suggestions? She thinks double middle names are cute. Help. Help. Help.
Sammy
NY
Baby Name Genie:
I believe you will find the name Valerie Kathryn Rose Allen to be less "cheesy" and a perfect fit for your coming baby girl.
(Message 2 of 2) Why don't you get a new job because you obviously don't like it very much. People write to you because they think that you are going to send them some real advice, but instead you are just a flat out jerk! I asked for some simple advice to compromise with my husband on a name for our new daughter. Instead you suggested that we have marital issues because of a lack of communication. Talk about taking your job out of context. If that is what you think advice is, then you must not be thinking very hard. Why don't you become a shrink, then you can give people marital advice and it won't be uncalled for.
Sara
CA
Baby Name Genie:
I am sorry. It looks like I misunderstood the question part of your previous message. See if you can both agree to letting your baby girl decide the name for you. If she comes in June, name her June. If she comes in July name her Julie. If she come REALLY early then Mae -- no scheduled inducing allowed (unless of course you must, but then don't go with my suggestion).
 
P.S. I can't help that I am a baby name genie. I just am one. There is not somebody to turn my resignation into. That would be like trying to resign from being a human.
(Message 1 of 2) Hi Genie, I am going to have a little girl at the end of June and I really want her to have a beautiful, girly name. Only problem is, my husband is very picky and doesn't like any of the names I do. How do I get him to stop being soooooo unbelievably ridiculous about naming our daughter?
Sara
CA
Baby Name Genie:
You will not like what I have to say to your very "I" centered note. So stop reading. No really--stop. Beware the crazy cycle!
We can't agree on a boy's name. I don't like Micah (that's what you picked). If it's a girl, we're going with Skylar Faye Rowe. The middle name needs to be Kinsland if it's a boy, because he wants to keep that name in the family. We just can't agree on a first name. Any suggestions?
Priscella
SC
Baby Name Genie:
I've already given you a fabulous baby boy name that you refused. Do you really want a second?
My wife and I unwittingly named both our first two children after presidents (Jackson/Kennedy). We like the trend, so now that my wife is pregnant again (Yah!) we like Grant for a boy, but cannot figure out a middle name. Please help!
Jeff
FL
Baby Name Genie:
Grant Owen or Grant McKinley but not Grant Ryder. I'll keep an eye out for the 2056 ticket to see what you decided.
I need your HELP! I cannot find a middle name for Mia. I have looked on every website and through tons of books. I'll take any suggestions! Something feminine...not a big fan of the bi-gender names. Thanks!
Melissa
MA
Baby Name Genie:
Mia May flows and is fun to say--which is great until you need to whip out her middle name to stop her cold in her tracks. In the rare case that you would need to do that (since your baby girl will be an absolute angel) I recommend Mia Danae.
My friend and I are both pregnant and we both love the name Ava. We both had the name picked before we knew the other one liked it. She wants to use it and I want to use it, what should I do?
Jess
Alabama
Baby Name Genie:
If its a boy, don't use the name. If its a girl tell her you are planning on using the name but that you will spell it backwards.
I just had a baby and I don't know what to name her because everybody is calling her different names. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!
Rachel
MA
Baby Name Genie:
Excuse me? She is your baby. Name her what YOU want. Tell everyone to clear out so you can have time alone with your daughter. Then take every little detail of her in and enjoy the life you brought into the world. A name will come. Once you pick it do NOT back down. Congratulations!
I am SO sick of the bi-gender name trend! You can't tell anymore whether a child is a boy or a girl based on their name. I can't find a decent name for a boy because the people who insist on using male names for girls are making almost every male name seem feminine! I need a real strong male name! I don't want people wondering the gender of my child when they hear his name.
Cara
TX
Baby Name Genie:
Don't despair. A few boy names remain unblemished. Last I checked I know no girls named Peter, Kenneth, or Clint. For an extra strong boy baby name, go with Sampson.
I like the name Cooper Ray but my husband likes Samuel Ray. So, I thought of combining. Does Samuel Cooper work together in your opinion?
Terri
Iowa
Baby Name Genie:
Your effort to reach a compromise is admirable. Yes, Samuel Cooper will do just fine. It works quite nicely as both a baby name and an adult name. Good work.
I would like to name my new Baby Girl a name that starts with the letter "B". This is my second child and my other daughter's name starts with "B". Any suggestions?
Bobbie
withheld
Baby Name Genie:
Yes. One suggestion. Pick a name that starts with "R".
I am still in high school and for an assignment in one of my classes I have to carry around a 10 lb. sack of flour and pretend that it is a baby. I am really into this assignment so I want a good name for it. I was thinking of Lukas William. What do you think?
Kelsea
Idaho
Baby Name Genie:
Introducing your "baby" with a name to inquiring strangers is much better than, "This is sack of flour that I am pretending is a baby." Since, you do not have to worry about the psychological ramifications of the name and have no husband to nix your first and middle baby name ideas, name it whatever you want. Now is your chance.
Hi Genie. I'm going to have a baby boy in June and I'm still not too sure about his name. My husband wants to name him Rufino Andres Rocha. I am not too sure about the middle name. It is hard to find a hispanic name that starts with the letter "a." I need help. What do you suggest?
Esther
Houston, TX
Baby Name Genie:
There are worse names than Andres. But since you must have an alternate, Antonio is an excellent middle name for the combination you are considering.
My inlaws hate the name my husband and I have chosen...help!
Ariel
FL
Baby Name Genie:
Do not flinch.
Who do I love?
Nancy
Irvine
Baby Name Genie:
Hmmm... a person with a belly button, a nose, hair and... What do you think I am? A love genie! Sorry Charlie..err..Nancy. I stick with baby names.
Thank you for suggesting the middle name Carter to go along with Morgan. It's perfect!
Julia
TX
Baby Name Genie:
You are most welcome. Glad you recognized it as a winning first and middle name combination. Best wishes to you and your growing family.
Our last name is Woods and I wished for a girl. You said Danielle Woods. That is where it throws me off. The thing is, my name is Danielle, and I want my baby to have her own name and not mine. Plus, every single name you suggested, I don't like. I'm not a person who always complains, but this time I am.
Danielle
OR
Baby Name Genie:
You should have been honored to know your good name was worth passing onto your child.
I am wanting to name my lil girl James, I'm not sure of a middle name but many people have said there is no way James is a girl's name. Do you think I am crazy for wanting a lil girl with the name James? My husband's family has masculine names for the girls such as Frankie, Billie, Cody.
Misty
MO
Baby Name Genie:
I don't think you are crazy (as in mentally ill)... just different. VERY different. If a boy can be named "Sue," then I suppose a girl can be named "James." "Frankie" though? Yikes! It looks like you married into the right family.
I love you, your my hero.
Ashley
NY
Baby Name Genie:
Thanks, but I would recommend that you revisit your definition of hero.
I want to call the baby boy I'm having Mack--but I don't want to use it as a first name! I need a first name to go with my middle name!! Please help! Thanks!
Kelly
NC
Baby Name Genie:
Alas, Mack is a hard middle name to introduce, but since you insist--Andrew or Warren is fitting. Do keep the boy's diet in check lest he becomes known as the Golden Arches signature sandwich.
Will my baby boy get made fun of if his name is Dominique Reilly?
Lennae
St. Louis
Baby Name Genie:
Yes.
What do you think about Shelby Kate Moore?
Kasie
TN
Baby Name Genie:
Original, but it would be a "skam" to say it wasn't problematic. I "shall be more" excited if you were to switch to Chelsy Kate.
What do you think of the initials GJB? I don't like them but my husband thinks I'm being too picky.
Alison
California
Baby Name Genie:
After some contemplation, I've decided to give neither you nor your husband the foolish pleasure of saying to the other, "Ha! See, I was right."
Which sounds best to you: Evan Scott Brown, Asher Scott Brown, Cillian Scott Brown, Roman Scott Brown, or Sebastian Scott Brown? I cannot decide for the life of me!
Kelly
Charlotte, NC
Baby Name Genie:
If you are willing to change your last name, then Roman is the clear choice. Your husband won't agree to this--therefore, go with Evan Scott Brown. Strong. Short. Flowing. Plus, you will rest better at night knowing he won't face a constant barrage of teasing about his numerals in math class.
My husband was on the fence about the name Sawyer, but after we got the "sign" that it was good from the Baby Name Genie he was convinced! Thanks for your help!
Deborah
St. Louis
Baby Name Genie:
I'm surprised he didn't see Sawyer sooner. Glad he is off the fence now. Hope it didn't tear a hole in his pants.
First name is Caroline. Can you make any suggestions for a middle name? Thanks!
Carla
Kentucky
Baby Name Genie:
Do you want ANY suggestions or GOOD suggestions?
We really like the name Brooke for our baby girl, but all we've found for a middle name is Lynne... we don't like it! Help genie!
Natalie
Idaho
Baby Name Genie:
If its good enough for a city--why not your baby?
You suggested the name Seth River and I fell in love with it. My son will be named Seth River now. Not only is it a very handsome name, but it has a personal meaning to me. Thanks!
Paige
California
Baby Name Genie:
You are most welcome! As long as your last name isn't Banks, I stand by that first and middle name combination.
Hello, I just wanted to thank you for the name. My due date is December 4th 2005 and I have been looking for names everywhere, and I found "the perfect name" thanks to you. My son's name will be Bradley James Harrelson.
Alexys
Canada
Baby Name Genie:
Indeed! Bradley is a fine name. I am glad you agree. I am sure your son will grow up to be an oustanding citizen. Keep practicing your breathing.
You freaked me out! The first name you suggested, Alexandra, is on the top of our list. How did you know?
Michelle
Peoria, IL
Baby Name Genie:
My apologies on the freaking. A clarification--Alexandra was not a name suggestion, it is the fulfillment of your wish for the perfect baby name. That it was on the top of your list of names is either coincidence or evidence of your superior intelligence. You decide.
You're SO FUNNY!
Amy
California
Baby Name Genie:
Thanks (I think).
Thank you for the perfect baby name! Could you please give me advice on how to help my wife "see the light" about the name?
M. Williams
Wisconsin
Baby Name Genie:
Have you tried hypnosis?
I wished--I dunno how many times--and not once did I see the name "Jim Bob". What gives?!?
Perplexed
Location Withheld
Baby Name Genie:
There is a good reason for that. I do like "Robert" and "James". "Bob" is short for "Robert" you know.
I am worried that if I name my baby boy Lazarus as you suggested, he will be picked on in school.
Amanda
Texas
Baby Name Genie:
Your baby boy will be picked on in school.

 
 
 
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